Marriage Teaching
MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE COMING TOGETHER FROM DIFFERENT BACKGROUND AND CULTURE, THEN IT COMPRISES: LOVE, TOLERANCE, UNDERSTANDING AND FORGIVENESS,
LOVE IS TO SEE GOD IN YOUR WIFE OR HUSBAND. Marriage is designed to mirror our Creator’s unconditional love for us. It’s a love that will always be there and will neither leave us nor forsake us. When a man and woman love each other unconditionally, contentment and joy follows.
TOLERANCE IS TO OVERLOOK OR ACCEPT HIS OR HER FAULT AND MOVE ON BY COMPLIMENTING IT, IT'S ALSO DOING YOUR BEST TO CHANGE HIM OR HER WITHOUT REGRET.
UNDERSTANDING IS DOING ALL IT TAKES TO KNOW WHO YOU WILL SPEND YOUR LIFE WITH. IT'S ALL ABOUT KNOWING WHO HE OR SHE IS, HIS OR HER ACTIONS IN EVERY AREA OF LIFE AND WHAT THE PERSON IS CAPABLE OF DOING.
FORGIVENESS IS THE ABILITY TO LET GO COMPLETELY AND HONESTLY FORGET WHAT EVER, BECAUSE WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND.
ONENESS
When a man and woman get married, the “two become one.” Marriage is a bond like no other. It gives us a life partner, a teammate, as we move through the challenges of life together.
DON'T EXPECT 100% RATING OF THE MAN OR WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE, BUT FOR IT TO BE 100% THESE THINGS MENTIONED ABOVE SHOULD BE OBSERVED.
THE GLORY OF A FAMILY CAN BE TAKEN AWAY FROM THE MAN AND BE GIVEN TO THE WIFE, AND IF THE WIFE DOES NOT MEASURE TO RECEIVE THE GLORY IT WILL GO OUT AND WAIT FOR THE CHILD OF THE FAMILY TO GROW UP.
MAN AS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY MEN OUGHT TO LOVE THEIR WIVES, ANY MAN THAT DO NOT LOVE HIS WIFE WONT ENJOY THAT WOMAN. ALWAYS SEE THE WOMAN YOU MARRY AS YOUR FIRST DAUGHTER,
WOMAN IS THE HELP-MEET ANY WOMAN WHO CAN NOT BECOME A HELP-MEET TO A MAN HAS FAILED HER WORK AS A WOMAN AND BECAUSE OF THAT MANY ISSUES WILL START COMING UP IN THAT MARRIAGE.
EVERYONE HAS FAULT, EVERY ONE HAS GOOD AND BAD SIDES OF LIFE, THE REASON FOR COMING TOGETHER AS HUSBAND AND WIFE IS TO COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER, BUT WHEN SUCH COMPLIMENT IS NOT COMING FORTH, THE UNION WILL HAVE A SERIOUS PROBLEM THAT NO ONE WILL UNDERSTAND THE ROOT CAUSE.
PURITY
Marriage is designed for purity. We face temptations every minute and from all directions. The bond of marriage gives us the support to defeat temptations by engaging in deep, satisfying love. A love that gives to, and receives from our mate physically, emotionally and spiritually.
SOME MEN CAN NOT SATISFY THEIR WIVES ON BED AND AS A RESULT OF THIS, THE WOMAN WILL HAVE OTHER OPTIONS IN HER MIND WAITING FOR THE DAY OF EXECUTION.
SOME WOMEN CAN NOT ALSO SATISFY THEIR HUSBANDS ON BED WHICH MAKES THE MAN TO SOUGHT ALTERNATIVES OUTSIDE OR IF BY ANY CHANCE A WOMAN COMES ALONG HE WILL TAKE THE ADVANTAGE.
THIRD PARTY IN A MARRIAGE IS LIKE A VIRUS, THIS IS THE ONLY THING THAT CAN SEPARATE OR BRING DISRESPECT IN THE HOME.
THE ABSENCE OF A FATHER IN A HOME MAKES CHILDREN NOT TO HAVE QUALITY GROWTH.
PARENTING
When a marriage produces a child or receives a child through adoption, it is one of life’s greatest blessings. Roughly 40% of children being raised today are in a home without a father. The effects of that fact are staggering. Father absence causes increase in mental and behavioral disorders as well as criminal activity and substance abuse. But when children are raised in a healthy marriage, they get a front row seat to see and experience the lasting benefits of a strong family.
I believe marriage is a way both man and woman grow as a whole, to learn how to be good parents and evolve as a man and woman. Unfortunately all of us are raised in different ways, with different paradigms, and in our ignorance we don't want to accept what the other has to teach us and we lose the opportunity to live a greater life. Try until you find a man that wants to experience good life with you.
I have been married for over a couple of years with a beautiful Christian woman who I thank God each day for bringing her into my life... but in those years it has not been perfect or always good. We have had our struggles, disagreements, and challenges. But for you and I as men of God, we are called to stand firm on the Lord's promises, to be courageous no matter what the enemy throws at us. The bible says in 1Peter 5:8 - he's like a roaring lion devouring who he may... Yes this world is filled with hatred, evil, greed, pride, and all that comes with sin... but this world also has Love, Joy, Peace, Long-suffering, and all the fruits of the Spirit that our Lord places in our hearts to encourage and influence one another to be over-comers in this world. John 16:33.... Continue to live for Christ and don't look back or at others that are perhaps living happier lives... you might think they are by their outward appearance and mask they hide behind. The reward for those who continue to the end in the good fight for God will reign forever! God bless you my Brother....
Psalm 73:25-26
25 Whom have I in heaven but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you.
When a man and woman get married, the “two become one.” Marriage is a bond like no other. It gives us a life partner, a teammate, as we move through the challenges of life together.
DON'T EXPECT 100% RATING OF THE MAN OR WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE, BUT FOR IT TO BE 100% THESE THINGS MENTIONED ABOVE SHOULD BE OBSERVED.
THE GLORY OF A FAMILY CAN BE TAKEN AWAY FROM THE MAN AND BE GIVEN TO THE WIFE, AND IF THE WIFE DOES NOT MEASURE TO RECEIVE THE GLORY IT WILL GO OUT AND WAIT FOR THE CHILD OF THE FAMILY TO GROW UP.
MAN AS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY MEN OUGHT TO LOVE THEIR WIVES, ANY MAN THAT DO NOT LOVE HIS WIFE WONT ENJOY THAT WOMAN. ALWAYS SEE THE WOMAN YOU MARRY AS YOUR FIRST DAUGHTER,
WOMAN IS THE HELP-MEET ANY WOMAN WHO CAN NOT BECOME A HELP-MEET TO A MAN HAS FAILED HER WORK AS A WOMAN AND BECAUSE OF THAT MANY ISSUES WILL START COMING UP IN THAT MARRIAGE.
EVERYONE HAS FAULT, EVERY ONE HAS GOOD AND BAD SIDES OF LIFE, THE REASON FOR COMING TOGETHER AS HUSBAND AND WIFE IS TO COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER, BUT WHEN SUCH COMPLIMENT IS NOT COMING FORTH, THE UNION WILL HAVE A SERIOUS PROBLEM THAT NO ONE WILL UNDERSTAND THE ROOT CAUSE.
PURITY
Marriage is designed for purity. We face temptations every minute and from all directions. The bond of marriage gives us the support to defeat temptations by engaging in deep, satisfying love. A love that gives to, and receives from our mate physically, emotionally and spiritually.
SOME MEN CAN NOT SATISFY THEIR WIVES ON BED AND AS A RESULT OF THIS, THE WOMAN WILL HAVE OTHER OPTIONS IN HER MIND WAITING FOR THE DAY OF EXECUTION.
SOME WOMEN CAN NOT ALSO SATISFY THEIR HUSBANDS ON BED WHICH MAKES THE MAN TO SOUGHT ALTERNATIVES OUTSIDE OR IF BY ANY CHANCE A WOMAN COMES ALONG HE WILL TAKE THE ADVANTAGE.
THIRD PARTY IN A MARRIAGE IS LIKE A VIRUS, THIS IS THE ONLY THING THAT CAN SEPARATE OR BRING DISRESPECT IN THE HOME.
THE ABSENCE OF A FATHER IN A HOME MAKES CHILDREN NOT TO HAVE QUALITY GROWTH.
PARENTING
When a marriage produces a child or receives a child through adoption, it is one of life’s greatest blessings. Roughly 40% of children being raised today are in a home without a father. The effects of that fact are staggering. Father absence causes increase in mental and behavioral disorders as well as criminal activity and substance abuse. But when children are raised in a healthy marriage, they get a front row seat to see and experience the lasting benefits of a strong family.
I believe marriage is a way both man and woman grow as a whole, to learn how to be good parents and evolve as a man and woman. Unfortunately all of us are raised in different ways, with different paradigms, and in our ignorance we don't want to accept what the other has to teach us and we lose the opportunity to live a greater life. Try until you find a man that wants to experience good life with you.
I have been married for over a couple of years with a beautiful Christian woman who I thank God each day for bringing her into my life... but in those years it has not been perfect or always good. We have had our struggles, disagreements, and challenges. But for you and I as men of God, we are called to stand firm on the Lord's promises, to be courageous no matter what the enemy throws at us. The bible says in 1Peter 5:8 - he's like a roaring lion devouring who he may... Yes this world is filled with hatred, evil, greed, pride, and all that comes with sin... but this world also has Love, Joy, Peace, Long-suffering, and all the fruits of the Spirit that our Lord places in our hearts to encourage and influence one another to be over-comers in this world. John 16:33.... Continue to live for Christ and don't look back or at others that are perhaps living happier lives... you might think they are by their outward appearance and mask they hide behind. The reward for those who continue to the end in the good fight for God will reign forever! God bless you my Brother....
Psalm 73:25-26
25 Whom have I in heaven but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you.
26 My flesh and my heart may fail but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.
I so want to keep fighting the good fight. I do not want the enemy to claim another marriage, especially a Christian one. I love my wife and know that we are both sinners and have made choices that have hurt the other. We have gone through as much storm and trial as you can imagine over these years of marriage, but when I look at everything she truly is the only woman I want to spend the rest of my life with, to honor, cherish and love until death do us part. I am praying for patience on my part and God's wisdom and timing to reconcile and redeem this marriage. I don't want to waste any of the pain I have experienced, so our marriage can be a testimony to others and we can help other married couples in crisis. But for now, I just have to survive this storm and pray that my wife wants to eventually give her heart to me in love and respect again. That is my prayer, along with my own personal healing in dealing with the emotional affair.
I don't think marriage serves any other purpose than a Spiritual one. God likes commitments so endorses marriage as a great option for living together also because having sexual encounters outside of marriage is VERY frown upon, so the only approved way of having sex is marrying someone. But nowadays there are plenty of civil provisions for two persons to live together and make a family. Sure, if you are very sentimental person and like that sort of thing, well, try and enjoy it.
From everything I have witnessed and experienced, it's more of a crap shoot. You can be as intentional and well meaning as you want and you still aren't going to get the results you desire in life as a man, as a husband, as a father or as an employee. I have seen people put in very minimal effort and reap HUGE rewards in everything they do in life and then others, like myself, who sink their lives into their marriage, their children, their jobs and their service to Christ and the Church and (other than my kids) see nothing but a big pile of "stuff" as their reward for years of intentional hard work.
I hate sounding like a victim here because I know I am victorious in Christ and am eagerly - VERY EAGERLY - awaiting the Glory of Heaven over this miserable and sinful planet we live in.
Marriage is the beginning—the beginning of the family—and is a life-long commitment. It also provides an opportunity to grow in selflessness as you serve your wife and children. Marriage is more than a physical union; it is also a spiritual and emotional union. This union mirrors the one between God and His Church.
The relationship between two people or groups is the way in which they feel and behave towards each other.
I so want to keep fighting the good fight. I do not want the enemy to claim another marriage, especially a Christian one. I love my wife and know that we are both sinners and have made choices that have hurt the other. We have gone through as much storm and trial as you can imagine over these years of marriage, but when I look at everything she truly is the only woman I want to spend the rest of my life with, to honor, cherish and love until death do us part. I am praying for patience on my part and God's wisdom and timing to reconcile and redeem this marriage. I don't want to waste any of the pain I have experienced, so our marriage can be a testimony to others and we can help other married couples in crisis. But for now, I just have to survive this storm and pray that my wife wants to eventually give her heart to me in love and respect again. That is my prayer, along with my own personal healing in dealing with the emotional affair.
From everything I have witnessed and experienced, it's more of a crap shoot. You can be as intentional and well meaning as you want and you still aren't going to get the results you desire in life as a man, as a husband, as a father or as an employee. I have seen people put in very minimal effort and reap HUGE rewards in everything they do in life and then others, like myself, who sink their lives into their marriage, their children, their jobs and their service to Christ and the Church and (other than my kids) see nothing but a big pile of "stuff" as their reward for years of intentional hard work.
I hate sounding like a victim here because I know I am victorious in Christ and am eagerly - VERY EAGERLY - awaiting the Glory of Heaven over this miserable and sinful planet we live in.
Marriage is the beginning—the beginning of the family—and is a life-long commitment. It also provides an opportunity to grow in selflessness as you serve your wife and children. Marriage is more than a physical union; it is also a spiritual and emotional union. This union mirrors the one between God and His Church.
The relationship between two people or groups is the way in which they feel and behave towards each other.
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